Its so weird

So over the last few days i kinda went on this mission to find my aunt julie who we havent had contact with for 14 years because she took off when she was 21 and last night i found my cousin Korins(my aunts daughter) friends who actually gave me her cell phone number and so i called her and ....she didnt answer. But it was like 11 so i went to bed and apparently she called back adn talked to my mom and was like " i think i need to talk to my mom first" and so i didnt get to talk to her or my aunt. ANd i know it seems weird to get upset about but my entire life i've been told that i look, act, and talk like my aunt and i really just wanted to hear her voice or korin's and i didnt get to. So we'll probably call them today but i dont know.